Saturday, March 30, 2013

Champion Grappler

  • I literally am walking on cloud 9 right now. I just lost the State Grappling match to the current Champion in my division. Our match lasted over 30 minutes and I walked away smiling and hugging the guy. (I'm a hugger) Why you may ask. I was able to be happy with my performance without being emotionally attached to the outcome. Winning requires the experience of loss sometimes in order to appreciate it.

I appreciate the supportive comments I received in posting this experience on Facebook.  I have included a few of these comments below:



Murray Barker Amen Brother. Great and rewarding experience too.
 
CoreyCub Keller You're a better man than I am.
 
Dennis Espinoza Only way to go, people that attach self worth to externals have a rough go of it in life.
 
Tracey Scalise Well said!
 
Amber De'Toles It was a great match--very exciting to watch! From the repeated take down attempts to the attempt at a wet willy! The evolution of your attitude and level of composure during competition has contributed to your success and your development as a professional fighter. I am glad you can enjoy the execution of the skills you are working so hard to master in a sport you love so much.
 
Laurie Shitdisturber Smith You are a true warrior!!
 
Wade Alexander it was a pleasure to watch...and a pleasure to cheer you on!
 
Ed Doyle REALLY good stuff Kai!! The greater the struggle the more glorious the triumph...
 
 

Saturday, March 23, 2013

New Beginning




After my last fight, I took some time to reflect on where I’m pointing my compass and who I want to surround myself with for the next step in my journey. I don’t want to suffer a loss in order to be reminded that I need to constantly be making improvements in my training and my personal environment. That being said, I knew I needed a new head coach and training partners with better skills in certain areas that I naturally am good at. Why focus on areas I am strong in? Because for the past seven years I have trained and competed in areas of mixed martial arts that I am weaker in.  It’s now time to focus on my strong suits.

Through the right circumstances I found a new gym, head coach and manager. Fortunately, I have earned numerous national titles in jiu jitsu and depending on the MMA camp; I can walk in at the top of the food chain amongst fighters with this skill set.  This success and my dedication to becoming a mixed martial artist and not merely a cage fighter allows me to keep pace with the most talented fighters in the Valley.

The new gym is called One Hit MMA and the head coach is a Brazilian, named Aldo Oreggia. He is a former world champion kick boxer who is going to take my striking skills and my career to an entirely new level.  Not only is Aldo highly skilled, but his fighters are loyal to him and have been with him several years.  Fighters can be fickle, so this is a true testament of his ability to coach and lead a team of fighters.  Fighters also remain loyal to a coach when they are making improvements and meeting with success in competition.

Even though I won my last fight under my former coach, he and I lacked chemistry.  The journey to being a champion is multi-faceted. If one of the ingredients for success is missing, you must be prepared to move on.

The list of ingredients is lengthy, but based upon my experience, some of the most important ones are:

1.       Synergy with your coach—a champion needs to feel like the he and his coach are co-conspirators in bringing out the very best there is within him.

2.       Trust and autonomy with training—a champion needs the freedom to train outside of his base team with experts in other disciplines as well as with other athletes that provide practice with areas of the fight game that team sparring partners might not.

3.       Ability to create a personalized support team—a champion’s team is those whom he attracts as well as those whom he feels contributes to his success.  A champion’s team is not based upon the team at the gym or the team the head coach trains.  

When I fight, my corner support includes my wife, my head coach and maybe one additional team member or special focus coach that I feel I will need to perform at my best. I determine who’s on this roster in collaboration with my wife and my head coach.  It might sound selfish but fighting is a selfish sport.  In the end, it’s only you and your opponent in the ring— toe to toe.  You want the best minds to have been with you in your fight preparation and for those minds to be the voices and the energy supporting you when fists and legs are flying.

4.       Diversity in my training environment—this ingredient is extremely personal to me as I grew up in the Bay area of California.  I was surrounded by people of different cultures, ethnicities, religions, beliefs and ideas.  Unfortunately Utah is dominated by gyms whose coaches, staff and fighters are not used to being around people of color.  They saw me is the stereotypical black man that the media has been so keen in creating over the past several decades.  No coaches and only a few fighters took the time to get to know me as an individual or had the paradigm to include me within the “inner circle.  Little do they know that I am an immigrant from West Africa with a completely different cultural background and life experience than that of black America.

Fortunately, One Hit MMA is diverse.  From its head coach, to its gym members and fighters diversity is represented.  Further, even the gym’s white athletes are more forward in their thinking and have all reached out to get to know me as an individual—not a label.

I’ve studied world champions and they don’t have a bunch of cage fighters in their corner. Nor do they keep changing coaches. They seek out specialists and maintain the same coaches for a long period of time. I wanted to wait until my skills were at a level where I could walk into any gym and be noticed for the time I’ve put into this sport and the skills I have acquired. It looks like I found the coach, manager and team at One Hit MMA.